Last night Kiro 7 News had a story of a 14 year old girl who fought off a potential rapist. She was walking from her bus stop when a guy grabbed her and tried to drag her off. She fought back, and she won!
Kiro 7 interviewed several people on the street for the version they broadcast last night. Most expressed concern and fear about the attack. Two of the comments are more noteworthy.
One was from a woman who stated she was glad the girl was able to fight off the assailant, BUT not everyone would be able to do that. She's right. Not everyone can, BUT I'll bet she'd be surprised how many women really can fight back with really simple techniques (BTW, several of my five week self-defense courses are just about to begin, if you want to learn those skills). It dismays me when women just write off the possibility.
The second noteworthy comment was the very last one. "What was a 14 year old girl doing out at 1:00 in the morning?" Indeed, that was often brought up by some of the online comments from viewers. That may be a good question for her parents, but it in no way, shape, or form lessens the responsibility of the attacker for his actions. Regardless of why she was out, the attacker should be brought to account for his misdeeds.
The report rape for sexual assault is already too low (somewhere between 15 and 30% are reported to law enforcement). Women and girls who are targeted are less likely to report if it includes getting scolded by the "well-meaning but clueless" brigade. So I wag my finger at Kiro 7 News for not only including that comment, but making it the very final statement on air.